Home / Weight Loss / My mother (literally) begged my boyfriend to keep me going to the gym/walking and a chastised every little thing I did at dinner. : loseit
My mother (literally) begged my boyfriend to keep me going to the gym/walking and a chastised every little thing I did at dinner. : loseit
My mother (literally) begged my boyfriend to keep me going to the gym/walking and a chastised every little thing I did at dinner. : loseit

My mother (literally) begged my boyfriend to keep me going to the gym/walking and a chastised every little thing I did at dinner. : loseit

My mother (actually) begged my boyfriend to keep me going to the gym/walking and a chastised every little thing I did at dinner. : loseit

I am having such a laborious time fascinated about it.

I spent my complete lifestyles being repeatedly prodded and poked and picked at via her. It’s at all times little issues. Usually giant issues too. I just about believe my youth busted, and I fucking went thru such a lot (no longer via her palms) and got here out with consuming dysfunction and normal top grievance of myself.

Well she got here into the city Friday. I used to be so fucking excited to see my mother as a result of I simply moved out and am in any case dwelling on my personal clear of my folks. BF and I have been excited to take her to dinner and on the force there, she simply totally melted down. “This is such a nice area to walk. You guys should be walking at least 3 days a week. Boyfriend can you PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make sure zzzt_zzzt goes to the gym? If not, just please go walking together. I beg of you, it’s so important, that’s all I ask of you, besides being kind to my daughter. That’s all I beg of you” and many others and many others There used to be a ton extra and I used to be in truth so used to her fucking embarrassing me that I let it slide and did not let it totally wreck the temper.

Dinner time comes round and every little fucking thing I do is being put underneath a microscope. She asks very nosy questions on what I’m consuming and even chastises me for taking the appetizer (that I ordered) house. Then she asks my boyfriend if he is “really going to eat all of that on his plate” and asks me the identical. “Wow that’s so much food” and different feedback like that.


Fast ahead to the day gone by when she used to be about to drop me off. She made a remark about my garments and how I used to be dressed in my pajamas and I flipped my shit. I informed her that being round her makes me really feel terrible. I informed her that the whole lot I do is mistaken in her eyes. I informed her how I used to be so fucking embarrassed that she would actually beg my boyfriend to be certain I went to the health club.

We did not argue, in reality. She broke down and cried tougher than I’d observed her cry. Told me she used to be apprehensive about my weight. and that she wakes up at night time crying about it (???). That pisses me off SO MUCH as a result of my growth isn’t HERS. My adventure isn’t HERS. She desires me to impulsively drop a few pounds but when I do this, I would most certainly acquire it again as a result of I have an EATING DISORDER and I NEED to alternate the small issues FIRST. But it is by no means excellent sufficient for her. I informed her that. And she appeared to take into account that. We each ended up crying a lot.


But now…? Now I nonetheless really feel so fucking empty and embarrassed. I glance into my boyfriend’s face and really feel like a sadness. I really feel so unfit of his persistence and kindness. Before she visited, I used to be feeling so assured that I used to be taking the proper steps to losing a few pounds, in search of a therapist to assist me, becoming a member of a health club, all of that. But then she simply ruined it. I had finished such a lot to stifle that small vital, nagging voice in my head that used to be filled with self-hatred, inner vandalism and never-ending grievance… and she simply made it come again, louder and more potent.

I need to lock myself into a room and simply cry into a pillow. I need to run clear of the scenario. I have no idea the place to cross from right here but even so extra anger and lashing out as a result of I really feel that voice bobbing up and telling me the whole lot is mistaken with me and that I’m an unsightly monster. That used to occur however then I began to love myself. She undid all of that.

Edit: I’m additionally simply no longer certain how to proceed a certain dating together with her at the moment. We’re texting usually however I really feel very faux about it. I apologized for snapping however I nonetheless really feel bothered in my center.

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